The characteristics of Fake Orgasm

As a man, be proud if they could lead their partner to reach orgasm. Unfortunately, not all women can reach climax during sex and they are often not honest to admit it.

According to a recent survey reported by the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, 85 percent of men said their partner could reach orgasm during intercourse, whereas women who admit to the top only 64 percent. This means, quite a lot of women who pretend to be reaching a climax.

Trigger hard orgasm is diverse, ranging from stress, anxiety, less confident with her body shape, feeling concerned with their sexual performance, lack of sleep, was in a hurry, until the fear of pregnancy. "So natural that sometimes women fake orgasms," says Emily Nagoski, author of Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms.

Orgasms are difficult to translate. But the signs of women will "explode" because stimulation actually received could be identified because the stimulation of sexual organs will transmit vibration and response in the body.

So, how to determine whether he's a real orgasm or just pretending? "You can only know from experience," said Jolan Chang, author of The Tao of Love and Sex.

Body's response to intense stimulation of sexual organ really is individualized so that no one who applies the same pattern at all. But in general, he said there were some signs of a woman experiencing the intensity of stimulation that grew stronger until into an "explosion" called a great orgasm.

"Her hands and her stomach will be more warm and at the same time his words become unclear because of her breathing became more rapid. Her body was soft as jelly and a wet tongue," said Chang.

Orgasm is a total response of the body, not just an event in the pelvic and sex organs. When the body releases the pressure rising through the orgasm, the vagina and the uterus will contract rhythmically. In addition, the high sexual vibrations will cause the contraction of facial muscles, legs, or hands.

In addition to the high-flying hours required, to distinguish between fake and genuine orgasm is tricky. Moreover, by mimicking the sexual scene pictures or videos, orgasm expression can be easily imitated.

The real issue is figuring out why the pair faked her orgasms. In addition to emotional closeness factor, women need a partner who understands how to stimulate and which parts he dislikes.

The signs of Women Faking Orgasm

A study says, 70% of women fake orgasms during lovemaking. Some of them even always faked orgasms, while a number of other women only occasionally. Like what actions actually faked an orgasm during a woman?

1. Clitoris & Nipple Reaction

Reported by iVillage, as in male, female clitoral orgasm just before going to harden. For men who want to know whether their partner fake orgasm or not, do clitoral stimulation. When you feel the clitoris hardens partner, meaning the couple are not memalsukannya.

Not only the clitoris that harden when a woman merasaka climax. According to research if a woman does not harden nipples when she's acting like an orgasm, 95% chance the woman faked her orgasms.

2. Breath and Heartbeats

Listen to her breathing in his ear. If her breathing becoming more and more weight, meaning she will achieve something. Breath of the woman the longer will be heavier when she reaches orgasm. Not just a breath, her heart rate will also be more rapid. If those two things do not happen, it could be the only woman fake orgasms.

3. Pupil Size

Dilated pupils are a sign of female orgasm during intercourse. If you have sex with a partner in a dark room, would be difficult to know if her pupils dilated or not. This third trick can be done in a bright room.

When making love, ask your partner's eyes. Women usually want to do it because they feel it is romantic. You should really remember how her pupils during orgasm and compare it when the show finished making love.

4. Lip Color

Women who experience orgasm lips will change the color becomes increasingly red. This is not just occur on the lips on the face alone. Pussy lips will experience a similar color change. So when you begin to penetrate, note the color of her lips. Then compare the time the woman reached orgasm. If the lips are not turned increasingly red, could be he memalsukannya.

5. Attitude After Orgasm

One that could be a sign of women fake orgasms or not is to see how his attitude after reaching a climax. Is he straight up out of bed or lying down vote first? If the selection is the first, the woman most likely faked her orgasms.

On reaching orgasm, the chemical effects that will occur eyes glaze and body limp. So usually a woman takes a few minutes to lie down to enjoy the moment.

After knowing the signs of women fake orgasm, you men who want menananyakan truth on the couple, should be careful. Do not get your question only made him cornered and sad. If the problem is not too fake orgasm interfere with your sex life and partner, should postpone plans to ask. But when it's disturbing, look for the right time to ask.